Frequently asked questions

When should I RSVP by?

If you could RSVP by May, that’d be swell.

Is there a hotel block?

We decided against a hotel block but have a number of recommendations on where you could stay. If you don’t want to think about it, stay at Hotel Kabuki or the Kimpton. Both are centrally located in the city and close to the ceremony site.

Are little ones invited?

We hope all of our guests, including those with children, use the long weekend as a getaway for yourselves. The welcome drinks on Friday and wedding events on Saturday will be adults only. Kids are welcome to come along to any of the events we’re cooking up for the rest of the weekend.

We know many of our friends and family that are traveling in have infants or young children. We are very appreciative of you making the effort!

What should I wear?

Cocktail or black-tie optional. We don’t care. Dress up!

The ceremony is in Lafayette Park and on grass. There is a short walk to the site, so please take that into consideration when choosing footwear.

October is typically beautiful in San Francisco (mid-70s and clear) but dependent on Karl the Fog’s mood. It can cool off in the evenings. Layers are your friend.